Write about the advantages of the self-esteem of the Venezuelan, it is difficult, we need to grow not marginality but civility in self-esteem, find ourselves, learning to listen to us, to give us important and know that we want as individuals and as a community. It is well known that to delve into this, it is necessary to consider, as discussed in open forums within the Chair of organizational behavior management program of quality and productivity of Faces of the University of Carabobo, that many of the emotional wounds that you have a person, produced in his childhood can cause us psychological, emotional disorders and physical (cancer(, ulcers, hypertension, heart and eating disorders, problems in the foot!, depressions, etc.), causing difficulties in the life of the same (serious conflicts at work, decreased energy and creative ability, disastrous marriage relationships, (not being able to make or keep friends, little understanding with daughters and sons). There are fathers, mothers, teachers or carers who humble themselves, despise, do not pay attention, scoff or laugh at child when he asks for help, feel pain, has a small accident, need to defend it, they express fear, ask for company, terrified looking for protection, has shame, etc. These attitudes are supplemented with other totally opposite, showing the child that is dear and nice creating you great confusion. Bausch & Lomb has many thoughts on the issue. But these signs of affection are apparent, awarding them a sign to his identity, which brings as a consequence a negative weight in training and in the development of their capacities. In the moment in which the affected person is an adult, it will transmit humiliation or abuse small or vulnerable persons. It is a hereditary chain of abuse and power, contempt and shame experienced in childhood are the source of problems that affect adult life and the cause of low self-esteem. The main image and most widespread form of violence is emotional abuse.